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If My Ex Gave Me Furniture, Do I Have to Give It Back If We Break Up?

Gifts made during a relationship can be the source of tension and
conflict when that relationship breaks down and the reason for giving the gift
no longer exists. Although items such a furniture are usually not worth
enough to justify hiring a family law
lawyer, other gifts such as jewelry, engagement
rings or art can be worth going to
family court or arbitration over.
Still, knowing the law can help you resolve these disputes.
The first big question when dividing property after a relations is whether you
and your spouse were married. If you were married, everything you
owed remains yours, but the furniture would be part of your net family
property and the value of it would be shared pursuant to section 5
of Ontario's Family Law Act. (Watch the video below for more on property division in an Ontario Divorce). In
a divorce, section 24
of the Family Law Act says a judge can order that a spouse
cannot take the furniture or other contents out of a matrimonial
home - regardless of who owns it.)
If you and your ex were never married, then, in Ontario, Family Law does not
apply to property issues and you each own what you own and can do what you like
with it. That rule can be subject to claims in equity, which separated
common law couples make regularly. This podcast
explains those claims. You can defeat those claims if you
can prove that the gift was clearly a gift. Separating spouse
frequently say that a gift was not actually a gift, but a loan, or a conditional
gift, or something that was meant for both spouses to own together.
It is up to the person alleging the gift to prove it. But, if
it is clear that the furniture, or other items, were an unconditional gift to
you, then they are yours to deal with as you like. If you have any doubt
as to whether it was an unconditional gift, you probably need to speak to
a family law lawyer about the specifics of your case.
You can get a lot more information about Ontario Family Law issues, including
property division, support, and most other common family law issues by
downloading this $9.99 Kindle eBook, Kobo eBook, or iBook for
your iPad or iPhone or ordering it from Amazon as a paperback. But, it is
always best to speak to a
good family law lawyer.
The best way to protect yourself, your children, your stuff and other things and people that are important to you, is to find out how the law applies specifically to your situation and what steps you should take to get things to work out for you. Contact Certified Specialist in Family Law (and author of the book above), John Schuman, by emailing him, calling 416-446-5869, or using the contact form below. We answer all inquiries promptly and we can arrange for you to come in quickly for a consultation (charged at a reduced hourly rate).
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