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Can a Spouse Quit a Job Before Separation to Get Spousal Support and Avoid Paying Child Support?

Some spouses think that it can be a good idea to quit their jobs, immediately before or after separation to get a support order in Family Court that is more to their liking. This strategy frequently backfires. The explanation of spousal support and child support that follows shows why.

Spousal Support (Alimony)

Spousal support is one of those complicated areas of law. In addition, it is ultimately almost entirely up to the discretion of the judge hearing the case. But, here is a summary of important things to consider when a spouse quits a job or reduces hours of work shortly before separation.

First, just because two people were married (or lived together for more than three years, or had a child) does not mean that a spouse is entitled to spousal support. Many people (and less experienced lawyers) overlook the entitlement question. However, if there is no entitlement there is no spousal support. The online spousal support calculations assume entitlement, but they do not show it – a calculation showing a value for spousal support does not mean there is entitlement. This podcast provides a more complete explanation of spousal support entitlement. However, to over-simplify, if a spouse has not suffered economic disadvantage as a result of the marriage or childcare responsibilities, has not become accustomed to a standard of living that is impossible to maintain on his/her income alone or has other financial needs, or has not provided services to the other spouse or children for which she has not received compensation or sufficient other benefits, then that spouse may not be entitled to support. There are other articles on this website that explain spousal support entitlement in more detail.


Second, once a spouse has established entitlement there are questions both about “how much” and “how long.” The Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines give some guidance on this. These are the calculations you see on online calculators. However, there are almost a hundred pages of rules about how to apply and interpret those calculations and how to determine where support should be in the range of values produced by the calculations. The online calculators do not explain those rules. You either have to read the text of the Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines (linked above), which is designed for lawyers and judges to read, or consult a lawyer about your case.

Third, spousal support is not just based on how much a spouse makes:

  1. Spousal Support is also based on how much a spouse could make. A judge considering a spousal support case will use a “full-time income” for a person who could be working full-time.
  2. Spousal support considers what contributions the spouse made to the marriage and children and what sacrifices the spouse made. It is not just important what a spouse makes, but what a spouse could have made if the relationship had not happened. 
  3. Spousal support can be paid either periodically (usually monthly) or in a lump sum. Where there is entitlement to spousal support, but the amount is not too high, spouses often prefer the lump sum so that there are no further payments and what happens to either spouse in the future does affect how much spousal support is paid or received. But where spousal support is to continue for a long time, or in a large amount, monthly payments may be more appropriate. There are also important tax considerations for each type of payment, which are described below.

There may also be some additional considerations that apply to the specific circumstances of a particular case. For more on that, watch this video on spousal support, but it is almost certainly better to see an excellent and knowledgeable family law lawyer with experience in spousal support cases to determine how spousal support works in your particular circumstances.

The decision by a parent to quit a job can also impact child support, but may not.

Child Support


Child support is a little easier. When a child lives primarily with one parent, the other parent pays child support. The Child Support Guideline Tables give a precise number for child support that applies in most situations. It gets more complicated in cases of split or shared custody, as described in this podcast or on this page. In addition, parents may have to contribute to special and extraordinary expenses on top of child support. But, it is important to remember that your spouse’s income for child support is the total of all income, so both employment and spousal support count. This video on child support covers many of the important things you need to know.

Who is Covered By This New Legislation?

Where there is no spousal support or not much. that does not mean a parent will be let off child support. Section 19(1)(a) of the Child Support Guidelines allows a judge to “impute” income to a parent who is not working as much as he or she could be. What that means is that a judge can order that a parent pay child support based on what that parent could be making rather than what the parent is actually making. Judges do not like parents who quit their jobs to avoid supporting their kids. In those cases, judges figure out what the maximum amount the parent could be making and base support on that. This is where a lot of parents get into trouble and fall behind because the order for child support is based on a higher income than the parent actually earns. It is never worth it to quit a job to get out of child support because if the judge orders full support based on a higher income, the parent can end up in jail when he or she fails to pay. 

It is also important to remember that spousal support is tax-deductible to the payer and taxable to the recipient unless it is paid as a lump sum. Child support is not tax deductible or taxable.

You can get a lot more information about spousal support, child support, and all the law involved (as well as information on most other Ontario Family Law issues) by downloading this $9.99 e-book for Kindle, Kobo, or iPad/iPhone/Mac or ordering the paperback version. You can learn more about the family court process in general by watching this video or listening to these podcasts (iTunes version here). But, to make sure you are doing the right thing, and the support amount is right, it’s always best to speak with a good family law lawyer. 

To discuss your case with Certified Specialist in Family Law, John Schuman, who is an expert in child support issues, call 416-446-5869, email him, or use the form below. We answer all inquiries promptly.

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You can get a lot more information about Ontario Family Law issues, including a comprehensive explanation of parenting cases (parenting time and decision making), child support, spousal support, property division, and most other common family law issues by downloading this $9.99 Kindle eBook, Kobo eBook, or iBook for your iPad or iPhone or ordering it from Amazon as a paperback. But to understand how the law works precisely in your situation, it is always best to speak to a good Family Law Lawyer.

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